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cookiesandchips
10-04-2006, 06:55 AM
I am so upset. My brother and his wife took my mom's dog Skamp since my mom has advanced osteoporosis and has been in the hospital since last October. Skamp was 9 when they took him....She will never leave the hospital again, and Skamp needed a home...I was not able to take him because my husband is allergic to fur.
Yesterday my brother came to visit (he lives three hours away) and told me that he and his wife had to put Skamp down......he claimed it was because he ran away all the time, and they kept having to pay for him at the pound......and that he barked constantly and the neighbours complained....and now he has started to act "strange" around the kids, by barking and acting wierd. I am wondering if that was an excuse, saying he was strange.....or if it really happened. I didn't know if I should tell my mom, because my brother said maybe not, but I felt she needed to know.....My mom understood and was very good about it....but my heart hurts. My brother didn't even get Skamp cremated because of the cost, and he let the vet dispose of him. (we feel differently about that, I would have paid to cremate or would have buried him!!) But my brother feels that once the animal is dead, it doesn't matter about disposal. This breaks my heart.....
I am sitting here so sad....I could not have taken Skamp due to my husband's allergies, but I would have paid, at least for cremation.
Please say a few prayers for Skamp, the norweigan elkhound in heaven.

Rest in peace Skampie......hope you are having fun playing with Papa up there in heaven. There are endless bones and lots of balls!

cookiesandchips
10-04-2006, 08:53 AM
I guess I should accept my brother's judgement on this....and trust what he did was right....and not judge him.....I have to believe that Skamp did go "strange" and was not just an inconvenience. I love my brother dearly and don't want this to come between us....but Skamp was also like a brother to me for ten years...Oh this hurts!

keeja820
10-04-2006, 01:26 PM
I guess I should accept my brother's judgement on this....and trust what he did was right....and not judge him.....I have to believe that Skamp did go "strange" and was not just an inconvenience. I love my brother dearly and don't want this to come between us....but Skamp was also like a brother to me for ten years...Oh this hurts!
aww sweety, i know what its like to love someone you care so much about!

hopefully Skamp did go "strange" and was not an inconvience (sp?). It does happen to animals, especially as they get older and when something changes, their environment, their owners, families, etc. my aunt and uncle had a dog. very sweet, but when they started a family, the dog totally turned! it was so scary, she would bark and try and bite. there are many dogs that have been rehomed and even though the new owners were told the dog was sweet and was sweet when they first met them, once they get in their new homes, they just "change".

i dont know if that helps at all :( just trying to perserve your relationship with your brother...kisses and i hope everything gets better!

LunaMidnight
10-04-2006, 04:43 PM
Aww, sorry to hear about Skamp. :(

My uncle died earlier this year and now his dog stays with my other uncle but she is getting old and has started pooping in the house and I think she's just confused and upset about being moved around and not understanding what happened to "dad". Sometimes I worry that the same thing might happen to her. :(

cookiesandchips
10-04-2006, 06:22 PM
Thank you everyone for your kind words....Skamp will always be in our hearts...

blacksettingsun
10-04-2006, 10:29 PM
:nolove: Skamp is frolicking with my Toby up over the rainbow bridge!! I'll make sure Toby knows to take care of Skamp...he's in good company, I promise!!

jessiegrl22
10-05-2006, 01:31 AM
I am so sorry for your loss. He was a beautiful dog, and I bet he is running and playing at Rainbow Bridge at this very moment!

Dusty's Place
10-05-2006, 01:40 AM
oh sorry about Skamp he was a nice looking dog

macy
10-05-2006, 07:44 AM
I'm sooo sorry! We had to put my 10 year old Akita down on the 24th of September, she had heart problems and a tumor, so I know how you are feeling. Skamp was very pretty though! Reminds me of my Sammy. :( I'm so sorry for your lose, but I promise, it will get better.

cookiesandchips
10-07-2006, 08:29 AM
Thank you everyone. I can't believe this is so hard. I think mostly because I have no closure...he was put down two weeks ago and I didn't have a chance to say good bye. And, I couldn't bury him, he was just "disposed of" which is very hard. :(