Friend/Guy Troubles

[Tigger]

So I liked this one guy, and he and I started to hang out a lot and stuff and it was really fun. So he asked me out and me liking him, said yes. Well, whenever we hang out with my other friend she always trys to flirt with him, and she doesnt even TRY to not flirt with him. She is being really obvious about it and its really bugging me. We will just be hanging out and stuff and she will go over to him and totally just throw herself at him..... And she knows that I really really like him and she like... doesnt even care.... And I ahve tolder her about it and how it bugs me and she still hasnt stopped. What should I do?

[tikitorch]

Not hang out with her- she isnt a friend if she is doing this.

[AnimalsR4Me]

I agree don't hang out with her. If he likes you, then he *should* ignore her. Really, the only thing that's going to stop her is if it becomes obvious to her that he doesn't like her. Maybe you could say something to him? Say something like "She seems to really like you" and see what he says....If he says like "yeah, i know, but I wish she would stop" say something like "well just tell her to"...When you don't get a responce from one party, move onto the next :)...She's not a friend if shes doing this to you. Friends dont date other friends crushes! That's not a friend. I would KILL my friends if they did that to me. Litterly. That's just not a friend. I'm really sorry this is happening to you. :( I hope she stops!

[Riddick]

Unfortunately, she is doing it purposely to frustrate you. It's because she's jealous, my best friend did the exact same thing to me, and then after me and my boy friend broke up on bad terms, she flirted with him even more constantly. Me and my "best friend" aren't as close as we were.

All you can really do is just try and tell her again what she is doing and why it is frustrating you, and if she doesn't stop, turn your back on her and walk away, and if the boy doesn't wanna hang out just you and him without your friend, then turn your back on him too. They are plenty of boys that are probably much better out there...good luck!! Let us know how it goes.

[TWHchinchillas]

I agree with what everyone has said so far. She's not a friend worth having if she doesn't care about how her actions make you feel.

[almostperfect10]

Does your guy respond to her when she flirts with him? If he does and he says he likes you, well, what guy doesn't love being showered with attention and feeling special?

Is your friend a big flirt with every guy that crosses her path? If so, she probably just enjoys the attention she receives in response. I used to have a friend like that. She wasn't trying to steal away the guys I liked or hurt me, but it sure was annoying!

Anyway, if your guy is responsive to her when she flirts with him and she is a big flirt with every guy under the sun, try hanging out with them both and another guy or two. If your guy observes her acting that way with every guy around, chances are he won't feel special any more and he probably won't be as receptive to her. And if she doesn't get a response from him, she'll probably grow tired of trying and move on to another victim...